The Revival of Letter Writing

Rachel Syme emphasizes the significance of letter writing as a leap of faith in her book Syme’s Letter Writer: A Guide to Modern Correspondence. She notes that you may never be sure if the recipient will respond, yet that uncertainty adds to the charm.

The pandemic reignited Syme’s interest in letters. Seeking connection, she reached out on social media for pen pals and received around 300 responses. Unable to correspond with all, she founded PenPalooza, a letter-exchanging program now boasting over 10,000 members. This engagement fueled her passion for correspondence, sparking the creation of her guidebook which offers practical insights and includes letters from acclaimed writers.

Finding a Pen Pal

Start with familiar faces—friends and family. To broaden your circle, reach out on social media with messages like, “I’d love to write you a letter.” Syme assures us of the surprising positive responses.

Topics and Creative Ideas

Don’t dismiss weather talk as mundane. Syme, quoting novelist Bessie Head, explains how weather can reflect moods. Rather than sticking to updates, use prompts like sharing your latest life hack or recounting an impulse buy. Include creative elements, such as drawn maps of local strolls or personalized Mad Libs.

Sneak in Surprises

Include flat tokens such as stickers or pressed flowers but steer clear of prohibited items like matchbooks. Consult a mailing list for prohibited items to avoid issues.

Alternative Writing Materials

Explore diverse writing surfaces. Syme has chosen items like postcards and vintage stationery. Other options include napkins or recycled materials.

Using a Typewriter

If handwriting proves difficult, consider a typewriter. Typing offers a tactile experience that sets it apart from digital screens.

Documenting Your Correspondence

To maintain a record of your letters, take photos of them before mailing. This practice creates a tangible archive of your written interactions.

Managing Correspondence Endings

Over time, pen pal connections might fade. Syme remarks on the natural evolution of relationships and assures us it’s okay if correspondence ceases when interest wanes on either side.

This insightful episode of Life Kit is produced by Sam Yellowhorse Kesler and edited by Malaka Gharib, with visuals by Beck Harlan. Listen via Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Stay updated through our Instagram.