In an open letter, a reader inquires about the common desire among brides-to-be for particularly costly engagement rings, despite observing that many women, after years of marriage, opt to wear only wedding bands.
The writer is puzzled by this observation and seeks insights into why the initial preference seems to change over time. This question prompts a reflection on traditions and the evolving perceptions of symbols of marriage.
Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post

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