Mel Robbins, a bestselling author and podcast host, shared a key lesson from her waitressing days on how to earn larger tips. Her mentor at the Red Rooster Tavern in Michigan revealed the real influencer behind tipping decisions was often the women at the table.
Robbins said, ‘Understanding who has influence over who gives you the good tip is crucial.’
While common presumptions suggest that the man paying holds the tipping decision, Robbins recalled that women frequently guide the final gratuity by advising their partners. She emphasized taking exemplary care of female patrons to ensure better tips.
However, this notion is met with caution. Hospitality experts urge servers not to ignore anyone at the table, emphasizing the importance of balanced attention.
Robert Mahon from Mahon Hospitality Group stated, ‘Ignoring the men and focusing solely on the women is just bad hospitality.’ He highlighted the importance of reading the dynamics of the entire group.
Research further supports Robbins’ view on tipping psychology. An experiment by communication researchers John S. Seiter and Harry Weger Jr. showed that simple compliments by servers increased the tips they received.
Lisa Burdette from the Dallas School of Etiquette agrees that women can influence tipping, yet she advises servers to engage all customers equally.
Peter Burke from Fox News Digital emphasizes that the person picking up the check ultimately decides the tip, without debate at the table.
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