Debate Surrounds Cash Wedding Registries

A celebrity couple’s decision to request financial contributions for their wedding through Honeyfund has sparked mixed reactions. AnnaLynne McCord, known for her acting roles, and her fiancé, former rugby player Danny Cipriani, have invited guests to help fund elements of their “dream wedding.” The couple’s online registry includes expenses like the marriage license and floral arrangements, with prices ranging from $100 to $600.

Etiquette Opinions

Diane Gottsman, a Texas-based etiquette expert, shared her view that directly asking for money is impolite. She emphasized that while a cash option is acceptable on wedding websites for things like honeymoon funds, it shouldn’t be the only choice. Gottsman believes guests should have the option to give a traditional gift.

“A gift is not an admission ticket to your wedding,” she explained. “It’s a gracious act of giving.”

Varied Perspectives on Cash Gifts

Reddit discussions reveal differing opinions. Some users see cash registries as a modern trend. One person noted no backlash when their wedding focused on cash gifts, adding they received contributions from everyone except one friend who gifted a meat subscription box. Another Redditor, identifying as Asian, explained that in their culture, money is the standard wedding gift. They questioned why in American culture, cash gifts are viewed negatively.

One Redditor suggested that, due to a general taboo around money in the U.S., directly asking for it is frowned upon.

Financial Considerations for Weddings

Gottsman advised couples to consider their financial situation when planning a wedding. She suggested they should host a celebration they can afford without expecting guests to cover expenses. If a guest prefers not to give cash, Gottsman recommended a polite refusal.
“Say, ‘I have something else in mind, and I’m really hoping you enjoy it,'” she suggested.

For those unsure about what gift to give, Gottsman recommended something sentimental or providing a gift receipt.

Teresa Mull contributed the article for the Lifestyle team at Fox News Digital.