Spiritual Practices and Personal Connections: Reader Insights

In February, we asked our audience about their spiritual practices. This inquiry formed part of a story on establishing a personal connection with something greater than oneself. Journalist Ruth Tam highlighted that participating in rituals and traditions can strengthen this bond. Over 80 responses came from readers of diverse beliefs, each offering poignant insights.

A Christian described growth and understanding within her church community. A Muslim recognized Allah in everyday moments like sunlight and birdsong. An atheist expressed how being his own higher power inspires him to perform good deeds. Below is a selection of how readers find spiritual comfort, ranging from poetry to gardening and ocean gazing. Responses have been edited for clarity and length.

“This guide grounds me in the natural world”

Mary Oliver’s short poem, “Instructions for Living a Life,” brings me meaning and connection. It advises: Pay attention, be astonished, and tell about it. This helps me appreciate my unique place in the natural world and inspires me to share wonder with others. —Mark A. Steiner

“I cherish moments with my grandchildren”

Engaging with my three grandchildren is deeply spiritual for me. Sitting quietly and answering their questions brings a sense of spiritual connection. —Frank Monachello

“Spiritual growth would not be possible without others”

I regularly attend the United Methodist Church and join group discussions with others focused on spiritual growth. Hearing others’ reactions helps me grow spiritually. —Margaret H. Lane

“Bow to the One who flung the stars into space”

For me, Allah represents the “something greater,” near and present. I find solace in the calm, birdsong, and daily rituals. Islam beautifully combines community and solitude, ritual and spontaneity. —Maaz Patel

“We alone are responsible”

As our highest power, we are responsible for our actions. This drives me to be a good neighbor and citizen. —Jesse Ohlsson

“Sunday mornings in the garden became my place of worship”

I was raised Catholic, yet sought a loving higher power. Gardening led to a deeper spiritual connection, becoming my personal sanctuary. It helped me trust my instincts and find creativity within myself. —Gail Kelley

“Daily I rediscover my place in the universe as I gaze out at the immense ocean”

Moving to Myrtle Beach, observing sunsets and marine life has become my spiritual ritual. This practice connects me to the world, allowing me to find my place in the universe. —Rodger Dicks

“I believe in things I can measure”

As a materialist, I find meditation helpful in managing stress but do not associate it with spirituality. —Marvin Straus

“We have always cared about all living things”

Before a heart transplant, my husband found spirituality in Vietnamese Buddhism. We joined a temple, and I continue practicing mindfulness and attending meditation sessions. —Bob Williamson

“I finally settled upon a belief system I call ‘universals’ “

After exploring various beliefs, I developed a personal outlook I call “universals,” encompassing ideas of consciousness, love, and eternal continuation. —Debbie Giles

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